Hosting a stranger

Last week I had my first Couchsurfing guest.

What is Couchsurfing?

  • It’s the largest hospitality network in the world
  • It’s a community where people believe in hospitality and provide free accommodation to travelers.
  • It’s a revolution in the concept of visiting a place, being in touch with someone living there.
  • It’s for people willing to meet local people, hear their stories and recommendations.

You can be a host, a guest or both, totally up to you.
You can ask to be hosted, or accept/deny requests from people to surf your couch, totally up to you.

If you think that is a great idea, you’re with me.

If you’re skeptical, but want to know more, check and wikipedia
If you think is a stupid idea, don’t worry. Just book your next 4 star hotel and follow the recommendation from your favorite touristic guide 😉

Anyway, I’m not writing here to explain what CS (CouchSurfing) is, nor to convince you that is a great or safe idea to host or be guest of a total stranger.

I’m writing to share my first experience: last week I had my first Couchsurfing guest, as I’m saying since the beginning.

He contacted me on the website, offering to be my first guest for 2 nights, as he was coming to visit Amsterdam for a week or so.

Checking his profile, I had a good feeling about the guy and I could see that he was in a CS trip around Europe, so this made him already an interesting character!

Chris, this is his name, came well organized: the first day he booked an hotel room, then phoned me up to meet and have a drink.
I appreciated this because in this way we could get to know each other before any commitment about hosting. He was clearly an experienced Couchsurfer and a well organized person.

Well, I really enjoyed the evening, taking him in few of the characteristic Amsterdam bars, and talking about his trip, how he ended up taking a Sabbatical and sharing stories and experiences.

He was my guest for 2 days, even if I don’t really have a couch to offer him, as I have 2 “fat boy” bean bags instead 🙂

I felt ashamed I could not offer him a real bed, but he told me:

“don’t worry, this is part of the Couchsurfing experience… if this is what you have, I sleep on it!”

This sentence say all about the spirit of who decide to travel this way…. but think about it.

Chris is travelling alone, something very uncomfortable and boring for most people.
Instead of paying hotels and try the luck in random places, he has been hosted by someone living in the city (well. that’s me) that could take him out to nice places to meet people. He did not get bored not even a second.

And  now me.

Hosting him was a great experience., and rewarding too. Taking him around was fun and we talked a lot about everything.
Now I have a friend more…  the kind of friend that you want to keep in touch with, not the kind of friend you go out partying without even talk… and also, I’m really curious to try myself a little vacation alone being someone else guest.

I recommend everyone to check out the Couchsurfing project and think about it…. as I said you may like it or not, that’s fine, but it’s great to know that things like this exist and offer experiences…. and life is all about experiences….. 🙂

P.S.: the second guest was a Russian girl visiting Europe, and went even better 😛


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Di Daniele

Hi, I’m Daniele! A human being from planet earth. I founded and I like dancing Salsa, running, and living a location independent lifestyle.

7 commenti

  1. Sei il solito maiale….ti sei messo a fare sta cosa esclusivamente per la seconda ospite…è meglio che Beppe non lo sappia….

  2. Lol Daniele, I just read this post since it was linked on your Walkabout blog. You really took my project to the next level 🙂

  3. Hey Chris,
    Yes I should have sent you the link earlier…mmm… it was 1.5 years ago 🙂
    But good we’re still in touch my friends, another plus for Couchsurfing!!!